What is the happy reality of our generation?

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

My son is possessed, now he has psychosis. Can someone help me?

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

Growing up in this decade.

2014- Present ( Modi).

Are female judges more lenient than male ones?

On a personal level.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

Hello I am 17 year old boy and I am interested in transgender why?

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

How can I get over a break up?

South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

What happens when you have paranoid schizophrenia?

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

Why do people who were very kind and loving once become cold-hearted?

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.

In Italy, how do people greet each other when they meet for the first time (e.g., on the street)? What's a good response to that greeting if you're not from Italy or don't speak Italian fluently yet?

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

What does the stink of the skunk look like? Why would it be dangerous?

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

Import Substitution was the mantra.

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?

It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.

Why do so many people like life?

Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)

How do people who are deaf learn sign language? Is it typically taught by parents at a young age or are there programs available for learning it later in life?

We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

☆ what's the thing that made u fell in love with your bias?

2014- Present

Pluses:

Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

Redefined

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?

There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

> India’s population was around 365 million.

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

IIT’s had just been established.

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.

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